The love of Jesus begets the love for Jesus which in turns begets a love for the world. It is how we go from totally depraved sinners into sacrificially loving followers of Christ.
If we want to see change in ourselves, we must first go to the source: Jesus Christ, the risen Son of God.
The good news? He never turns away those who come to him (John 6:37).
Let us go to him and receive his love. We will forever be changed.